As single ladies living in NYC, we enjoy having closure and much more critical than that is certainly always knowing where we stand in the current difficult dating terrain where trust and honesty are almost non-existent because of free dating websites, the internet and mobile phones allowing already challenging men with even means for deception, where do we stand?

Let's discuss all the various dating labels around. The phrases and terminology we use to define the relationship. Dating, if I'm going out with a guy that has the potential to be a boyfriend, I'm dating him. Boyfriend potential in the sense he possesses each of the big things on my list.Could he become the one? Probably too soon to find out, but he may be and we will continue to keep dating until finally I know. Can't say that I've really done a lot of dating in the city. I don't usually hit it off with many men and on the uncommon event I do, they more often than not turn out to be totally unavailable and/or raising warning flags which quickly down-grades their dating status.I think it's crucial to date more than one person at a time and implore women to take action.Things, especially in New York City, are likely to NOT succeed. Having a handful of guys in the rotation, you're keeping your options open, which helps lessen the frustration when it doesn't work…there's always the other person. Seeing Someone. When you're seeing someone you know just isn't Mr. Right but you are hooking up with them on a fairly normal basis, than by my lingo, you are in fact seeing them.It is a less extreme way to convey a hook-up or friends with benefits romance. I am inclined to recycle guys that I've "seen" before. You encounter them, they go, however they always keep coming back in some type or fashion even years later. Boyfriend. Actions talk louder than words with exception to the talk, that has to occur for the romance to be legitimate. He can be acting like your boyfriend, seeing you a number of times per week, calling you every night, holding your hand in public places, BUT, if you do not have the talk, he in his own brain can still think he is single and also, using the unspoken principles of dating, technically has the right to be seeing others. Almost all single men make an effort to go as long as possible not having the official talk. Take this advice: Be weary of males that are instigating the talk, particularly if it is just days after knowing you.Here's an additional tip women, text message romances are a distinct sign that he's just no that into you.No worries. We may not that be into them either. The instant the situation begins to feel like a relationship of the text message variety I right away demote the guy from a guy I'm dating just to someone I'm seeing occasionally.

Here's my dating wisdom. With all the 'smoke and mirrors' that men released, it's difficult to say if we're ever seeing things plainly. Our dating advice may sometimes be off or vastly vary, but I really believe at the end of the day learning is half the struggle.The quicker you can evaluate and honestly recognize the signs, the less likely you will be hurt, wasting energy and/or let down.I convey to all of my female friends and female online dating clients, have knowledge of your male environment at all times and always attempt to know your status. If you're too emotionally involved to evaluate, have an honest friend put a label on it .